Are We Sharing—or Performing?
More than 20 years ago, I wrote a book called BRAG! The Art of Tooting Your Own Horn Without Blowing It. Lately, I’ve been thinking a
Be Yourself? But Which One?
I don’t hate the word authentic. I hate that it’s so overused, oversimplified, and reduced to the kind of cliché you’d find needlepointed on a throw
Part II: The 60 Minutes Showdown—Communication Breakdowns Are Rarely One-Sided
I recently wrote about the leadership mess at CBS News—a failure at the top marked by poor communication, a lack of transparency, and a breakdown
Executions Without Explanation
I’ve been following the controversy surrounding the firings and restructuring at CBS News and its flagship news program, 60 Minutes, and found the missteps to
It’s Commencement Season
I love a good commencement. The grandeur of Pomp and Circumstance. Graduates strutting across the stage, triumphant, relieved and ready to rip off their gowns
Swagger without the Sweat
A March 31 New York Times article called it “swagger without the sweat.” I’d put it more bluntly: We’ve created a culture where people can
I finally got over myself
Last month, I was interviewed for a new podcast called Master Your Mistakes. The host, Jesse Coleman, is a London-based marketer who interviews entrepreneurs and
What grounds you when things feel uncertain?
As I write this, I’m deeply aware of the privilege that I—and many of you reading this—have in being able to question and change the
Out of South Africa: Lessons in Unstoppable Confidence
I’m not a doctor, although years ago, as an actor, I almost played one on TV. So when I was asked to spend two days in Cape
The Missing Piece in the Workplace
My clients strive to be bold, visible, courageous, and resilient. Yet, as they face daunting financial, political, and employment headwinds, they need one thing above
Unstoppable at Six Months: Is it time for your mid-year performance review?
I started working with a new client last week who told me that she hadn’t had a performance review in 18 months. I was shocked! Worse,
The Moon Doesn’t Apologize—and Neither Should You!
I hit a nerve! Last month’s newsletter on The Likeability Trap sparked a flood of responses from women—and men—who opened up about their deep need to be
What’s the Cost of Being Liked?
A few months ago, I shared the launch of my new program, UNSTOPPABLE CONFIDENCE, and I am thrilled by the response. Organizations, conferences, women’s groups, and the
Confidence and Courage
In recent years, the progress we’ve made toward gender equality has faced relentless challenges. Across the globe, political movements are gaining traction with agendas that
Going Big
Last month, just days after my newsletter Playing Small landed in your inbox, I listened to The Interview, a NY Times podcast featuring actor Al Pacino. The episode was
Confidence-ially Speaking
“Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one’s courage.” – Anais Nin In the fall of 2022, as we were beginning to emerge from the
Are you as confident as you should be? Conquering the confidence crisis in the workplace.
Cue Elgar’s Pomp & Circumstance March No. 1. It’s graduation season! Thousands of commencement speeches are being delivered all over the world, opining on the
The Apology Dilemma: Why Is It So Hard to Say ‘I’m Sorry’?
“I’m sorry” are two teeny, tiny words critical to maintaining relationships and resolving conflicts. Yet, many of us find them very hard, if not impossible,
Culture Clash
Whether like me you grew up as a Boomer in the 60’s, or you are a card-carrying member of Generation Z, most girls grow up
Movies! Munificence! Music!
Not just in March, in honor of Women’s History Month, but throughout EVERY month, we celebrate the power of women! This month, I want to
Your Post Performance Review xTwo
The 2023 performance and comp discussions have been delivered. Ostensibly they are in our rearview mirrors. Yet, both employees and employers often leave these discussions with
Peggy Klaus’ Civil Obedience
We are 1/12 of the way through 2024, and as the well-wishing for peace and happiness fades along with the holiday music and decorations, I’m
New Year’s Resolutions vs. Intentions
Happy Holidays, and welcome to our annual SPIRAL OF SHAME — making and breaking New Year’s resolutions.For years I pledged to lose those pesky five
A Month Filled with Wisdom & Gratitude
“Speak with kindly motivation. Speak what is true and helpful, speak in due season and to the benefit of all.” ~ The Buddha With so
Everybody’s got a story. What’s yours?
“Stories constitute the single most powerful weapon in a leader’s arsenal.” ~ Dr. Howard Gardner, Harvard University For the past 51 years, the picturesque town
Your life is beyond compare!
In the Netflix documentary “Tiny Shoulders,”- we see how Mattel reimagined Barbie’s unattainable likeness. We also hear from many women who admit that this iconic
Why is competition at work such a dirty word?
Most of my clients won’t admit to having a competitive streak, but I’ve found that they weren’t being honest with themselves. No surprise, men are
Bored No More
I am hearing more and more that boredom is the main reason people are questioning their current career trajectory. Is boredom the quickest path to
You CAN Teach an Old Dog New Tricks!
This month I urge you to look for inspiration in an unlikely place. Until I got my dog Ernie, I had no idea how important
Confidence doesn’t equal Arrogance!
Lately, a lot of my time has been spent talking to clients, friends, family, and colleagues about confidence. Why do some people have a lot
Unstoppable at every age!
In March I celebrated a milestone birthday, My seventieth, and I feel GREAT! As anyone over the age of 40 will tell you, these occasions
Is good enough really good enough?
As March comes to a close on International Women’s month, take an extra moment to think about the wonderful women in your life who fortify
What will be your IMPACT in 2023?
I hope your holidays were joyful and restorative and that 2023 is off to a wonderful start. At the end of each December, I make a lengthy
Change is Inevitable. Growth is Critical.
You want to feel safe and certain, to predict the future, and to be large and in charge. But, what in life can you be
Unstoppable Courage: Speaking Your Truth
This year, on July 4, we celebrated our Independence as we have for over 200 years. Flags were flown and brilliant fireworks were on display
Being Present, Grace and Poise Under Pressure
In “The Writing Life,” the Pulitzer Prize-winning poet, essayist, and novelist, Annie Dillard, writes: “How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our
Applauding UNSTOPPABLE Confidence and Courage
Like everyone, I am in awe of the UNSTOPPABLE spirit of the Ukrainian people. On TV, I watch the devastation to their beloved cities, I hear them
Happy New Year and welcome to my first monthly newsletter of 2022
I am so delighted to be able to share my work with you. Among the many communication and leadership programs being offered this year, my